Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Forever - Veiled

The place was almost packed. People belonged to all kinds, race, size, nature.
She slowly struggled her way through the crowd getting crushed and squeezed on her way,then finally found a place to sit. What a relief, the window seat was a bonus.
She pushed opened the glass window with her tender slim hands and maximum force that she could give it and sat back. The cool tender morning breeze making its way through the window grills, dried the sweat off her face. she could almost smile at it. She looked around. There were more than a dozen pair of male eyes gazing at her. She wished she could get up and burn all those eyes off, scratch their faces, like they were never there. But, the least she could do is ignore. Look elsewhere. Act like she never saw them. She pulled out a book from her bag and started reading. She carefully lifted one of her legs and crossed it over the other, pulled her blue kameez down to comfort. Her pink churidhar was matching her pink earings, pink dhuppata and pink footwear. Her bindi had traces of both the colours and so did her hair pins.
She was reading her book with all the attention, may be she had an exam/test in college or she was just reading to divert herself from the people around her.
After a few stops, traffic signals and jams the bus finally was approaching her stop. She got ready to get off. She pulled out her bag, placed the book in it and removed a piece of cloth from inside. A Blue one, to match her kameez.
Without the slightest hesitation, she folded the cloth into two and wore it down from her eyes, the other half was hanging down. She then took it up from behind and used it to cover her hair. Within a minute it was done. she had a blue cloth all around her face and hair. All that could be seen of the pretty face that was there till now was the confused pair of eyes and the double coloured bindi. Wearing her bag around her, she again pushed herself through the crowd and got off to go join a dozen other girls waiting for her, like her, veiled.

20 comments:

Arun Sundar said...

Is she goin to a Moslem college or something?

Priya said...

she is :)
that was kinda obvious right!

Arun Sundar said...

'Kinda'?? lol..

so is that 'she' you?

Priya said...

:)
why lol for 'kinda'?
not its not. i was an observer.

Sathya said...

a beautifully crafted social issue...nice reflection of women in our fast transforming nation...

Muslim or watever..it will apply to any girl in our society...

i never realised that how a girl wud feel when being stared at...phew!! if this is wat runs thro' all girls' minds, then no man will ever dare to look at one again (if he has a human heart)...thanks for this valuble input...keep d gud work... :)

Priya said...

@sathya,

Thanks.
Most of the description and running thoughts were my own interpretation, by exprience and otherwise. The important thing i wanted to reflect here is the veil that she wore on.

Vineet Gupta said...

zInteresting blog. I share the same thoughts.

However, I was disappointed that a very few articles on net agree with us. I guess fear of a religious backlash prevents such articles from being published widely. I was really agonised at reading this article in particular: http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w_hijab_agony.htm, which rather than raising a question mark against veiling in the mordern society, challenges people like us who seem to disagree with it. The article is written against the people who frown at the idea of a viel. Or this one which seems to go all the way to justify the viel: http://www.skidmore.edu/academics/arthistory/ah369/finalveil.htm.

Just goes to show that, some ancient customs are too hard to get rid of. I think just because of political reasons, people push wrong ideas in the name of "preserving culture". And we can just blog or comment about it [:(]!!!

Vineet Gupta said...

Interesting blog. I share the same thoughts.

However, I was disappointed that a very few articles on net agree with us. I guess fear of a religious backlash prevents such articles from being published widely. I was really agonised at reading this article in particular: http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w_hijab_agony.htm, which rather than raising a question mark against veiling in the mordern society, challenges people like us who seem to disagree with it. The article is written against the people who frown at the idea of a viel. Or this one which seems to go all the way to justify the viel: http://www.skidmore.edu/academics/arthistory/ah369/finalveil.htm.

Just goes to show that, some ancient customs are too hard to get rid of. I think just because of political reasons, people push wrong ideas in the name of "preserving culture". And we can just blog or comment about it [:(]!!!

Priya said...

Vineet,

We could face these situations at every topic , every single issue in this country or for that matter even globaly! thats the only right people take liberty on, right to express and right to religion...

but, how things change is only by attitude and mindset. I wish we grow up soon to realise things beyond this.
I wonder how all this started.
Are we viled because people watch us or do people watch them because they are viled othertimes?
i guess i can go on... :)
thanks for sharing!

Sathya said...

but i was wondering abt one thing...its only here that muslims r so cluttered amidst cultural enclosures..in their own free land, women enjoy a heavenly state of liberality...though behind veils..they ve a status, a recogniton and a security..i ve seen it and it left me gaping...

governments in their place takes care of them..but here they r branded as minority not only by govt. but also they own fellow people...till this persists...veils wil co-exist..and u wil keep blogging them...

Vineet Gupta said...

While, why people started veiling may ir may not be a chicken and egg problem, I just wanted to bring to light the fact, that even on internet where people are supposed to put liberal views and all, is filled with blogs supporting the veil (or the burka).

People are more bothered about explaining how the tradition started, and how relevant it was in the ancient time rather than questioning its viability in the modern times.

Anyways, there is nothing wrong expressing our views on the same. Who knows your blog might act as fluttering of butterfly wing that brings a tornado of change [;)]!!!

Sathya said...

i agree wid u vineet reg tradition issue, many dont realise that v ve to move on wid "Change" rather than cribbing at d "As Is" situation of d past and follow it so judiciously..

i am not ridiculing our tradition..we need to adapt to the change and at a fast pace...

veiling views...hmmm...i wud say its done only to defend one's image..a gud lot preaches and prays different..result = veiled blog...

gud thoughts vineet...some more pls.. :)

Priya said...

Vineet,

Its beyond culture, tradition and religion. You can be all this and still on one of the best paths.

If we start questioning we would be left with millions of things to question about and doing just that and going no where.

Its about ignorance and finding our own way out of it.

Vineet Gupta said...

I agree with you to some extent.

However, I think awareness is the first step towards the solution. Its another fact though, and a bitter one at that, that most of the times people end up using the awareness for cribbing about million things that are wrong in this world, rather than doing something about it.

My point was just to spread awareness about the views of people on the net about veiling. Its for all the people reading the blog, and hopefully the comments and take it forward.

As for me, I think I seriously need to dig more into this subject before writting or doing anything more about it [:)]!!!

Anonymous said...

Hey nice narration :)

Like the little details you have added...and really like how you captured innocence of the girl

You have good observation, and your a beautiful story teller !

The whole write-up was very novelistic, I could almost see the little girl going through her routine and how she found a way to dress-up like a normal girl of her age, within the veil

For rest of the guys, chill guys....take a chill pill. Why is everything connected to religion. Aren't we all veiled in some manner ??

Nice one Priya...think of me as an observer's observer

spunkyviji said...

hey priya

how are u ?
loved ur blog on the veiled
u ve great writing style :-)
keep writing n see in cbe soon ..

love
viji

Priya said...

@ anonym,

thanks.

vijiiii,

thanqu! :) for dropping in...
yes, yes, im waiting to see you there! come a day early :)

Vineet Gupta said...

Looks like I got slightly carried away with the social and religious aspect. Surely, this entry makes for a well narrated scene for a documentary or a suspense thriller depending on the way you want to take it forward!

Veena Shivanna said...

Priya,

Sorry to leave this message here, Could you pls check on the Admin rights of WC blog pls?
I replied on the email which you had dropped, and am waiting for your advice.
Pls let me know
and you got a great blog out here, I liked the points which you listed as 'Priyas Dreams', the noble ones really!

Thanks a ton
-Veena

Anonymous said...

Hi Priya,

First time here.. :)

I understand it is your observation. And I assume that it happened somewhere in India. Why is she veiling herself? Who is forcing her to do so? I have seen only two reasons for a non muslim girl to veil herself. One is to protect her skin from tanning when she rides a bike and the other is when she goes out with her boyfriend.

I'm not clear with the last part of the post.. :(

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About veiling. I will leave my thoughts here, being a 'hijab' clad woman myself. I am not wearing it without asking the question 'why'. It has nothing to do with traditions or culture, but with common sense. My body is precious and is my own business. It is my character and dignity which matters the most and not my body.

From my experience, it just makes me feel great. I don't have to worry if someone is looking at wrong places. It makes me feel nice when people give way for me while walking. I feel most of the Indian women share the same thought with me. Its just that my clothes are extra loose, my sleeves extend till my wrists and I have my head covered, leaving only the face and hands to be seen. :)

A lady doctor I visited recently, who happens to be a Brahmin said "I envy you. It is always better to be dressed like this in a world where men look at women like objects" :)